BUFFY the Vampire Slayer’s director Joss Whedon was married to ex-actress Kai Cole back in 1995.
The couple divorced in 2016 after a tumultuous relationship, in which she alleged in a personal essay that he admitted to having multiple affairs with various women.
Who is Joss Whedon’s ex-wife Kai Cole?
Kai Cole is a Los Angeles based architect who previously worked as an actress and producer.
She co-founded Bellwether Pictures with ex-husband Joss Whedon and produced In Your Eyes, Much Ado About Nothing, and Professor Marston & the Wonder Women.
She currently works on both architecture and entertainment projects.
Do Kai Cole and Joss Whedon have children?
The couple share two children together: Squire and Arden Cole.
Cole and Whedon met in 1991 when she was driving across the country from Massachusetts and was passing through Los Angeles.
They quickly fell in love and moved in together.
Whedon and Cole separated in 2012 but finalized their divorce in 2016.
What did Kai Cole say about Joss Whedon?
Cole alleged in a personal essay that her marriage to Whedon was “uncomfortable” for her because he would allegedly pay attention to other women.
She claimed that 15 years into their marriage, Whedon came clean about allegedly having several affairs while working on Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
In the essay, Cole described the conversation, writing: “Joss admitted that for the next decade and a half, he hid multiple affairs and a number of inappropriate emotional ones that he had with his actresses, co-workers, fans and friends, while he stayed married to me.”
Cole called him out on his “hypocrisy” as she claimed he portrayed to be a “feminist” but allegedly behaved in an opposite manner.
She alleged: “He deceived me for 15 years, so he could have everything he wanted. I believed, everyone believed, that he was one of the good guys, committed to fighting for women’s rights, committed to our marriage, and to the women he worked with.
“But I now see how he used his relationship with me as a shield, both during and after our marriage, so no one would question his relationships with other women or scrutinize his writing as anything other than feminist.”
In response to Cole’s personal essay, a spokesperson for Whedon addressed the claims saying: “While this account includes inaccuracies and misrepresentations which can be harmful to their family, Joss is not commenting, out of concern for his children and out of respect for his ex-wife.”
Cole also mentioned that her marriage left her battling “complex PTSD” and had trouble getting back to feeling confident due to the relationship.
What did Charisma Carpenter accuse Joss Whedon of?
Buffy the Vampire Slayer star Charisma Carpenter accused Whedon of “cruel and abusive behavior.”
Charisma, who starred as Cordelia on the cult 90s drama and the spin-off Angel, took to social media on Wednesday to share her story, and call the cult favorite a “vampire” who “sucked out joy and promise.”
She said: “Joss Whedon abused his power on numerous occasions while working together.
“While he found his misconduct amusing, it only served to intensify my performance anxiety, disempower me and alienate me from my peers.”
“Joss has a history of being casually cruel,” she continued, alleging the Avengers director has “created toxic and hostile work environments since his early career.”
Charisma went on to allege he would regularly threaten to fire her, call her fat to colleagues while she was pregnant, and “often play favorites, pitting people against one another.”
The actress also accused the writer and director of asking her if she would “keep” her baby, when he discovered she was pregnant, and then “unceremoniously fired me the following season once I gave birth.”
The Sun has contacted reps for Whedon for comment.
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